No change necessary…

The sun sets on another day…

The sun rises, the sun sets, and it is what it is no matter how you think it should be, you accept it simply because it is perfect the way it exists, or at least there is no way to change it.

I find it funny how people try to change other people. Some people don’t of course, but many people see someone else and try to say they should be another way, or degrade them to a point that person needs to change. In reality, people are perfect just the way they are, not just today, or yesterday, but every day they exist and the only person who can judge or change them is themselves. Now don’t think that means every person is perfect, but instead realize every person is perfect for themself. They do not need someone to explain their flaws, they are well aware of them. Instead they need people to pick them up, and press them to a higher level by showingt hem the good in themselves.

I had someone in my life once that judged each thing I did. They tried to make my life miserable by deciding what I should be doing, even if it was not to any benefit. I would like to think they found someone perfect for them, but I know they were unhappy with me, and I was unhappy with them. This was not for anything more descriptive that they wanted me to be something else.

This weekend at an author fair I had the opportunity to meet someone who was happy with themselves, and who their significant other was extremely happy with. The husband let the world know in front of a huge stack of authors, that he supported his wife in every endeavor no matter what. Sure, he knew she had responsibility, but he was excited and happy to be a part of what she was doing, and was an integral part of it all.

The point is, we are who we are, and not who anyone wants us to be. We need to realize that no change is necessary, but any change is possible. We need to be those people that love life, and ourselves above all others, and live for every moment.

So as the sun sets on another day, guess what, you are great just the way you are right now. If someone doesn’t like it, it is not your problem, it is theirs. Be who you need to be, want to be (As long as you are not hurting others) and make the world a better place, no matter what.

Sleep sweet, Feel the breeze, and love til the mornings light…

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