The sun sets on another day…
Today was a lazy day not filled with all the over the top excitement from yesterday and Friday. I am still frustrated about the server failure, but I know it will only get better now. I missed some things I should have gone to, and did not get to do some things I wanted to do, but in the end, it is good again. In the middle of it all I was thinking about cracking corn, and what it meant and laughing to myself about what people think it means, and what it means.
Sometimes you stand up when everyone else wants to sit down. sometimes you have to choose for the greater good, sometimes you have a good day, and others, well you have a good day as well.
I have stated many times that our days are a choice, and today I will again with a twist. Sometimes you have to make some rough decisions that only you can make, and they will hurt. In fact, they will hurt bad. sometimes you have to remove the toxic things from your life even though it may not seem like the a bad move. Sometimes you have to realize your idea of reality may not be reality.
Hmm, what do I mean?
If you have a lot of friends, and a person pulls you away from them, it may not be a good thing. If you have a friend and you find they are talking about you without you being there, it is not a good thing. If someone doesn’t appreciate the person you are, it is not a good thing. Basically, you need to consider all the things around you with fresh eyes. Basically, you need to do more for you. Sometimes you have to look through someone else’s lens to understand what you are seeing. Sometimes your best friends tell you the brutal truth, and you they, because as best friends it is our duty.
A lot of people say they wish they had never been hurt, I wish I could have realized sooner, and made peace or understood why more effectively. After all, hurt lets us see new worlds, change lets us move forward more effectively, and a life without pain would be a little boring. I would rather not have a boring life.
So as the sun sets on another day, you are not a failure. Time to think, to consider, to know a little more about you, and find a little more about others. Listen and hear, and find the people who build you up, find the things that make you better, and let go of the things that drag you away. It only makes sense. Somewhere in it all, find what makes you happy, and be happy, no matter what.
Sleep sweet, love life, and laugh all you can…