The sun sets on another day…
The sunset slithered through the trees and fell to the far end of the sky until there was nothing but color everywhere. I smiled for a moment and enjoyed it all.
“Not being happy isn’t the same as being unhappy”. It is a statement I made quite a while ago. It’s hard when you get to this point. I made this statement when discussing a breakup, many people go through similar. The question has to become “what makes you happy?” and that should be before you get to understanding your unhappiness.
I find that a lot of people don’t really understand what makes them happy or they don’t reach out and try to grab what makes them happy or see things from a The perspective of happiness. Why is it that we put ourselves last so many times or slowly allow our values to erode away as we watch others take and take again.
Do you know what makes you happy? Do you understand how to find that happiness and be part of that happiness? To reach for it all the time? If there’s something that destroys your happiness are you able to walk away from it?
That last question it’s hard. Sometimes people stay just to be antagonized you mean whether it is a work situation or one of a dozen different scenarios, sometimes people are their own worst problem. My solution is easy, you need to figure out what makes you happy and hold on to that with all your heart. After all we only get one life.
So as the sun sets on another day, I hope you find happiness each day. I hope you define your happiness and make it real because you deserve it. Mostly I hope that you understand that you are special and you deserve to be happy and no one should be able to take that away from you, no matter what.
Sleep sweet, loved life, and be happy…