The sun sets on another day…
Sunset was nice. Yes, nice. It was rainy, and moist (why do you dislike that word) but nice as temperatures rose. I am hopeful tomorrow will show a path to more.
I was considering last night as I wrote all the people who come and go in life. With that in mind I reached out to a few people to make sure they were ok but wondered about the choices we make, and why we make them.
Of course leaving people in life can be a good thing. There are many people who have traits that are toxic and ultimately destructive and many more who simply do not see you for you. Their purpose for you was to use you or see how you can help them instead of growing together, or learning together, or more. Whether friend or more this seems to be a considerable number as people see only from their perspectives, and it is hard for most to understand their own needs, let alone yours.
There are also people who are so lost in themselves that they misplace people. Not wanting to lose someone, but a the same time not knowing where to put them in their life. What box to place them in per se. They offer no malice, but have no point of reference and apply their needs to your psyche. This may or may not work.
Of course there are others who want to please, and learn, and grow with you. These friends try to find common ground and truly want to understand. With that in mind your communication can build your relationship, or set it aside easily. In love, these are the people who will change your world.
Of course there are also more. Who cares, right?
I am only suggesting with all this superfluous silliness, that if someone is important to you, say hi once in a while. Learn a little more about them. See them for who they are inside. Find a way to make them a part of your life because they are important, umm, or not.
So as the sun sets on another day, wouldn’t it be nice if we were all willing to do whatever it takes to make someone else happy? Wouldn’t it be nice if the words no matter what were more than just words? Wouldn’t it be nice if we saw people and wanted to help others learn about us and themselves in a healthy way? Sounds super good, let’s try and along the way, enjoy every moment of your day, no matter what.
Sleep sweet, love life, and see more…